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      Have you ever considered what image you project? How’s your attitude about life, being a lesbian or dating? Do you walk with confidence or insecurity? It’s important to consider these things when looking for a date. More times than not, you’ll attract the type of woman who’s attracted to the signals you’re sending. So, if you’re meeting the wrong type of women (or the same type), try changing your attitude. If you don’t normally smile, try giving them a quick grin. If you give off an air of arrogance, try loosening up a bit. A little self-reflection and image adjustment in lesbian dating can go a long way.

      How can you find Ms. Right if you don’t have a vision of what she looks like? Make a list of the qualities you like in a woman. This lesbian dating tip may sound like a silly exercise, but a few minutes with a pad and paper can help you focus on finding the right woman for you. Not long ago I wrote down the hair color, height range, ethnicity, and build of my ideal date and it’s amazing how many women I meet that fall within my “list.” But in lesbian dating you don’t just stop there – life isn’t all about physical qualities. What kind of personality or demeanor would you like her to have? What about her family life? In lesbian dating, keep your options open, though. Sometimes the cosmos have a way of surprising us.

      You wouldn’t look for pasta sauce in the frozen food aisle of the grocery store would you? Of course not. So with lesbian dating, why do most lesbian women look for specific types of women in the wrong places. If you like a certain type of lady, go where those types of ladies go. I’d love to say the world is an integrated utopia, but people tend to hang out with others with similar backgrounds or interests. Let’s say you’re looking for a woman who has an interest in theater; then join a local theater group or hang out at local venues frequented by theater lovers. If your dream lover is a body builder, then spend more time at the gym, because more than likely that’s where she’ll be most of the time.

      Are you the life of the party or do you like to sit on the sidelines? Most lesbian women wait for their dame in shining armor to come and swoop them up from the bar stool. You look, make eye contact and even flirt a bit, but do you ever make a move? Who doesn’t want a beautiful woman to come up and talk to them? Unfortunately, this attitude has created an imbalance in the lesbian dating scene. Since everyone’s waiting to be approached, in lesbian dating, like other dating scenes, there’s no one doing the approaching; which is why it’s not uncommon to go to a lesbian party and see everyone standing around in their own corners like at a middle school dance. Practice getting out of you comfort zone. Find a girl you like and try starting a conversation. To many lesbian women, the thought of doing this is terrifying, but with practice it will get more comfortable.

      Now that you’re ready to walk up to a girl, what are you going to say to her? Well, in my experience two angles work best: breaking the ice and then finding something in common. With lesbian dating, breaking the ice can be easier than you may think. Find something unique about her (article of clothing, jewelry, hair style), then comment on it. Try a humorous angle. Instead of saying, “I like your hair cut” try phrasing it in a way that will make her smile or continue a conversation. A better approach might be, “You know, my stylist said only certain girls can pull off that style. I guess you’re one of them…” Hey, it may sound cheesy, but it strikes conversation and hopefully, a blush. If you get stuck, then offer to buy her a drink. This buys you time to think about something else to talk about.

      Once you’ve broken the ice, find something you both have in common and go with it. If nothing is apparent, ask her if she is interested in the things you’re interested in and go from there. Soon, you’ll breeze through this lesbian dating situation.

      Be honest and open with your new prospect, but don’t give too much too soon. Connecting with someone you like can be an overwhelming experience in its beginning stages. Take your time getting to know one another and let the details of your life and your emotions unfold naturally. Your first date might not be the time to talk about work stress or emotional issues with your father. Spend time in the beginning of lesbian dating getting comfortable with each other and slowly open up. That way neither one of you are overwhelmed too early in the relationship.

      Sometimes playing the dating game is like playing a slot machine. It’s attractive with its many colors and sounds, but always uncertain. Of course, there’s the potential of hitting the jackpot, but unless you’re extremely lucky you have to play more than a few coins to hit big. If approaching a girl doesn’t work the first time, then try, try again. Eventually it will pay off.

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